"Chill, okay, just chill!"

Have you heard people telling you these lines?

Used went you're pissed, gan cheong, anxious, emotionally unstable like you're gonna kill someone. 

And then someone tells you, "Chill, okay, you need to chill!"

I don't know why when people tell me, "You just chill la..", it kinda irks me. Like, I just don't like it when people tell me that. I don't know if everyone else has that problem. 

But it's kinda ironic because when I see someone overreacts, I would say the same thing too! I would just ask that person to chill because he/she is taking things too far and it's kinda annoying to see them overreacting to a small situation.

Flunyway, the thing is, when people ask me to chill, I'll feel like snapping and go, "What the hell, bitch?! You telling me to chill?! Chill?! CHILLLLL????!!" And then I end up getting even more pissed off and annoyed. But I think it's partly because when people ask me chill, it means that I'm overreacting and they're asking me to just shut up. And trust me, no man loves to think that he's wrong.

I think it's not just my problem though. For example, I watch a lot of TV shows where the husband cheats on the wife and then the wife snapped and went crazy like that. And the husband has the audacity to ask the wife to just chill. And the wife is like, "Chill?! You want me to chill??!! I bloody want me to chill and calm down and expect to keep quiet about it?!!!"
It's like, the husband is thinking that, "Hey, all I did was cheat behind your back! You don't need to get so worked up! We can talk this over nicely."

Seriously, you cheat on your wife and you think it's not even a big mistake, I don't know how logic and morals is applied in your life.
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I think what's worse is when someone blurts out things like, "Eh, you overreacting la! Why're you being so emotional?!"
Whoa... I think it's gonna be a huge blow to me if someone says that.  Haha, I guess rule number one when trying to chill someone pissed off is when NOT to say things that would make them feel that they're wrong. Because again, like I say, no man likes to be wronged. But at the same time, it's kinda hard because we don't know what words will piss people off.